So tell me this ladies... has anyone ever felt so "blah" about their next cycle after a failed one?
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Friday, June 17, 2011
Good To Go!
So everything looked good on the ultrasound this morning and all lab values came back perfect.... so why do I feel so apprehensive towards this cycle? I think I am just depressed because I know if this one fails (which I feel like there is a good chance it will)-- I will have to wait until next year before trying anything again. Ugh! Will I ever become pregnant?
So tell me this ladies... has anyone ever felt so "blah" about their next cycle after a failed one?
So tell me this ladies... has anyone ever felt so "blah" about their next cycle after a failed one?
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Oh yes. As we speak.
Hoping this works for you1
After my IVF wasn't successful, it was VERY hard to pump myself up for my FET. And, like you, it was my only shot. We couldn't afford a whole other round of IVF and we only had 3 embryos (1 didn't make it through the freeze). So yes, I did feel "blah," and now I'm 15 weeks pregnant. It's hard to forget the past, but you gotta move forward. I'm really praying this cycle is it for you! :)
I definitely feel that way after my recent fail. On one hand I want to jump back in and on the other, I don't know if I can handle another fail. Scares me...
Joey
http://thechildlessmom.blogspot.com
As we speak my dear...it's just us protecting ourselves. It doesn't mean that we will have the same outcome though. We just learn to protect our hearts better. I'm rooting for you dear!
I can totally understand why you would feel so guarded. I am just praying your outcome is positive. It can happen. It has happened. Try your best to hold on to hope and we are all here to root you on :)
Completely, I totally felt out cycle was a waste and not worth the pain involved...but it turned out my twins were a result...don't give up yet! "Even miracles take a little time..." -Cinderella
Absolutely... my first and third Clomid cycles I was enthusiastic about (the third because my OB bumped up the dosage), but the others felt like I was just going through the motions. My first IUI I was excited about, but after our early loss I went through the second IUI more as a necessary step toward IVF. I was very hopeful about my first IVF, but this next one I'm approaching with lower expectations. I still want it to work and I still have hope, but I'm going in with much less invested emotionally. I'm focusing a lot on our adoption right now, so our upcoming IVF is like an added bonus on the way to children.
Yep. It's definitely normal to feel that way. After our first IVF (miscarried triplets), it was very hard to believe that we would ever have a baby. I still feel very negative before, and during cycles. There's always that belief that it only works for other people.
Good luck!
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I was feeling blah through most of my second IVF cycle. I had to force myself to stay positive, each and every day was a struggle, and I even had a few really big breakdowns, I cried through most of it.
But through all of that, our second IVF cycle was a success and our little miracle is due in a month!!
Hang in there, and try to remember why you are doing this!!!
I should also add, Happy ICLW from #96!!
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